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3rd-Jan-2007 02:45 am

There was this one person who just really....lets say he could have been a lot more honest than he was. I'm thinking back on it and it just makes me go 'damnit!'. But then again, I made a couple of pretty crappy mistakes in the honesty department myself. Maybe not with this guy, but still....how entitled am I to being upset with him?

I guess I can only try and learn from what I did wrong, while not judging him to hard on his mistakes.
Oh whatever, who am I kidding? The only reason I'm writing this is so I can say he did me wrong and I'm upset about it damnit!
3rd-Jan-2007 02:18 am (UTC)
I'm inclined to believe that you have every right to be upset, regardless of what said person did. To what degree it upsets is left up to you.
3rd-Jan-2007 05:19 am (UTC) - Amen Brother
you just put into words exactly how i try to live everyday. a m e n.
3rd-Jan-2007 05:52 am (UTC)
hell ya!
3rd-Jan-2007 08:14 am (UTC)
Honesty is always a 2-way street. You only get what you give.
3rd-Jan-2007 05:24 pm (UTC)
Maybe you got what you gave.
3rd-Jan-2007 10:53 am (UTC)
main thing is, i hope ur ok, and not hurt more than ur letting on. hugs and i hope u get past the hurt and bitterness soon.
as for the rest... if you learn from it, then it served its purpose, no?
you say You made some mistakes in the honesty area. well, that does Not justify His mistakes (just as His do not justify Yours).
but we are human, and we cause hurt. so we are all to blame for our own failings. everything else is just an excuse.
but apart from the rational crap... yes, he did you wrong, and You are my friend, not him, so I am behind u all the way :)
peace to you, little bruised ego
3rd-Jan-2007 03:44 pm (UTC)
Hugs ^_^
3rd-Jan-2007 04:21 pm (UTC) - what doesn't kill a hamster makes it stronger....
what doesn't kill a hamster makes it stronger...
being upset is not a solution... just forgive, and then, keep all the good memories...

you know I'm doing it, and it works... no reason it wouldn't for you too

sam the pirate
3rd-Jan-2007 07:38 pm (UTC)
that icon makes me giggle.
3rd-Jan-2007 10:56 pm (UTC)
We want all the details - and then we will help you smite your enemies! ;-)

4th-Jan-2007 02:56 pm (UTC)
I am almost certain that Dr Phil would be able to give us all some great advice here :-)

But be upset of course. And then move on. No sense dwelling on history...unlike in text books, it doesn't change no matter how much you focus on it.