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11th-Jan-2008 01:40 pm

I have been single for 4 years! Now don't get me wrong, I don't want a bunch of comments saying "don't worry, you will find someone". Because I don't worry about it. But 4 years! It is worth a mention and some exclamation marks I think :P


My friend is convinced I am "into Asians". I don't know. I guess he is right :P
I really don't like the idea of it though. It seems kindof not nice to the ones I direct my affection at...
Well actually no now that I think about it more, it's more the fact that Asian boys often have a lot of the features I like. Boyish cute? Check :) Nice lil asses? Check :) Slim but fit? Check :) Tan skin? Check :) OK so not always tan skin but you know what I mean.

Yeah...now I don't feel bad about that anymore. Haha.

We are having a bunch of people over for a Galette party tonight (it's some Catholic thing where people eat cake, but mostly an excuse to get together. Should be nice! Maybe I'll take some photos, we'll see I guess...
11th-Jan-2008 01:10 pm (UTC)
I get told that a lot as well. (Never mind the fact that I have a Japanese name for my LJ -- it's a long story -- but I'm actually not Asian at all.)

Here in Australia, a lot of white gay guys just seem to not find any Asian guys attractive, and if I say I think an Asian guy is handsome/sexy/whatever, my friends usually laugh about it like I have a "fetish" or something, which I think is kind of racist. The Australian slang for it is "rice queen" -- meaning a (white) guy who's only attracted to Asian guys. I used to know a guy who said he's more likely to have sex with a woman than with an Asian guy.

Asian guys do have a lot of really nice physical qualities -- but so do all nationalities. I'm attracted to all kinds of people, and it sucks that so many gay guys are so quick to put labels on everyone.
11th-Jan-2008 01:36 pm (UTC)
Well it's all preference I guess.
11th-Jan-2008 02:40 pm (UTC)
Loving the new icon :)
11th-Jan-2008 02:45 pm (UTC)
11th-Jan-2008 03:15 pm (UTC) - time, skin, love end life (nothing other?)
4 years are many.I have been alone 7 years, not memory more when. but, 6 years ago, I have made a lesson, and, between the students, I have seen Stf. and Stf has seen me.3 days after, we have begun living together. she was not the person, the way, the time, that I waited for, but from then we grow entirety, happy.
the skin that tries, I believe, he is in your job, and you have it already.
good galette - gnam gnam ;-)
11th-Jan-2008 06:25 pm (UTC) - Re: time, skin, love end life (nothing other?)
hehe gnam gnam?

in norway we say nam nam. here in france it is miam miam.
11th-Jan-2008 03:26 pm (UTC)
this is sucha cute entry =)
11th-Jan-2008 06:25 pm (UTC)
it is?
11th-Jan-2008 04:53 pm (UTC)
oh it is good to be me then. ;)
11th-Jan-2008 06:27 pm (UTC)
11th-Jan-2008 05:08 pm (UTC)
I <3 East Asian lads. Mmm. I love kpop boybands.. music's awful but soo hot haha.

I kinda like boys in general tbh.
11th-Jan-2008 06:26 pm (UTC)
Haha. You know, I love most things about Japan, but the pop music there is *awful*. Not very nice at all...
11th-Jan-2008 06:45 pm (UTC)
may be you are jerking too much ^
11th-Jan-2008 06:47 pm (UTC)
i probably am!
11th-Jan-2008 07:41 pm (UTC)
You say that you been single for four years, but I bet you have been with guys (one night stands and so on) during those four years :)

I have to ask are you afraid to love someone or just that you never found the right person yet.
12th-Jan-2008 11:02 am (UTC)
Yeah there has been a lot of sex and even some almost serious stuff with boys, but never a real relationship.

I just haven't found the right person yet.
11th-Jan-2008 08:35 pm (UTC)
Hmmm...there are plenty of people that have been single for long periods of time. If Asians are how you define beauty, thats cool. Beauty can be found in all cultures and races...Aren't Catholics opposed to certain lifestyles or is there laissez-faire attitude? Eitherway, I think its great.
12th-Jan-2008 11:03 am (UTC)
Asians are not how I define beauty :p. A lot of them simply have many of the traits I like...
11th-Jan-2008 10:26 pm (UTC)
I'm glad you're not depressed about being single for so long like so many people would be!
I've been single for a year and a half and at time I love it, at times I hate it. But right now I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship.
12th-Jan-2008 11:05 am (UTC)
I think I am ready, but I am not going to enter one just to enter one. Then I might just stay single, because single is pretty alright :)
11th-Jan-2008 11:54 pm (UTC)
sublimation all the way :]
12th-Jan-2008 11:07 am (UTC)
12th-Jan-2008 01:50 am (UTC) - Dont Rush Sexy
There's someone "out there" for you Markus and it is "meant to be". When you find him AND HE FINDS YOU, you'll both know it. In the meantime, wank away and play till your hearts content. Wish I was asian :-)
12th-Jan-2008 11:06 am (UTC) - Re: Dont Rush Sexy
Haha. Just for the record; being Asian does not give you free access down my pants.
12th-Jan-2008 03:09 am (UTC)
i love the pic you posted with this entry. is it part of a series i missed? or a series you will post some time :)
12th-Jan-2008 11:07 am (UTC)
Inside joke between me and my roomie and a friend of his. This is all there is :)
12th-Jan-2008 03:42 am (UTC)
Thanks my Buddha
12th-Jan-2008 11:08 am (UTC)
Hah :p
12th-Jan-2008 07:06 am (UTC)
Asian persuasion.
12th-Jan-2008 11:08 am (UTC)
Did you see the Janet Jackson video? It is horrible.